I just find it insulting. Like, if you want to find pacifist societies, they are often microcommunities of hunter gatherers following strict societal roles (not to be confused with the western notion of a nuclear family or gender politics, only their own ideas of a person’s place within the community).
And even then plenty examples of these people groups abound as being vicious and warlike. So much factors into whether a society is warlike beyond who runs the damn place.