My boyfriend and I are both catholic, but he keeps wanting me to do sexual acts in exchange for keeping the real deal for marriage. I don’t feel good doing so and I have told him many times but he says he desperately needs it so I tend to give in. He’s a good man outside of that. What do you think I should do?

corinthian-inspiration:

patron-saint-of-smart-asses:

He is not a “good man outside of that”, he is straight up garbage BECAUSE of how he uses and manipulates you for sexual acts.

Dump him and move on. If he has issues with sexual morality then he needs to work it out with a priest and a therapist.

He is cohercing you into sexual acts. I don’t know the whole of your situation but it sounds like assault. Dont stay with him. He’s trash