Your practicing of virtue does not protect you from the consequences of other people’s sin.
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Modesty is a virtue, but it does nothing to stop someone else from committing the sin of lust.
St. Maria Goretti was the poster girl for holiness when she was alive, super modest and charitable and all that jazz, but that didn’t stop porn-addicted Alessandro from trying to rape her.
Countless virgin martyrs, such as St. Agnes, were virtuous Christian women, but they were sexually assaulted for their faith and/or for choosing celibacy.
St. Dymphnia was killed for refusing to marry her unstable and incestuous father.
When modesty is discussed in Scripture, it is explained as an outward expression of inward holiness. When lust is discussed, it is explained as displaced sexual desire and attention to anyone who is not your spouse. When one subject is discussed, the other is not.
This is why people need to stop talking about how important it is for people – ESPECIALLY women – to dress in a way to prevent lust in men. That’s not how lust works. That’s not the function of modesty. A woman may act and/or dress in a way so as to purposely seduce someone, but dressing modestly in itself is not a defense mechanism to “protect” you from the lust of men. To say such a thing not only spits in the face of our spiritual sisters in Christ who were assaulted for their faith, but it also ignores the true purpose of modesty and the true seeds of lust. Covering up most of your figure and skin won’t stop someone from hiking up your skirt, or imagining what you might look like anyway.
There are many good reasons to practice modesty. Preventing lust is not one of them.
Tag: sin
This generation is so desensitized to sin. We laugh at dirty jokes and obnoxiously overused F words. We post things and take in things that absolutely blaspheme Gods name. We entertain ourselves with sex and violence, letting things into our minds that corrupt our hearts and pull us away from being holy. And we defend said sins, by saying “I’m not convicted”. Your heart should always break for what broke Jesus. You should be convicted over the sin you take in, and if not then you should be praying for God to open your eyes.
Cut your sin off and kill it. Deceit is a slow burn, and eventually it could cause you to fall away from Christ.
Don’t act like you’re so special that Jesus didn’t die for you. Jesus died for you to save you from you’re sin.
Don’t act like lgbt people living in sin are so dirty and sinful that Jesus didn’t die for them. Jesus died to save them too.
But let’s go further. Rapists, pedos, murderers, terrorist. Don’t act like their sin is so great that Jesus didn’t die for them. He died to save them from their sins.
What about woman who had abortions? What about the atheists? What about that mean girl from high school? Or your abuser? Or your rude coworker? The teen who had a baby out of wedlock?
Jesus died to save them from their sin too. Whether you want to believe it or not.
If someone turns to Christ and repents, then who are you to say they are unworthy of Christ when Christ has deemed them worthy.

“Christian love bears evil, but it does not tolerate it. It does penance for the sins of others, but it is not broadminded about sin. The cry for tolerance never induces it to quench its hatred of the evil philosophies that have entered into contest with the Truth. It forgives the sinner, and it hates the sin; it is unmerciful to the error in his mind. The sinner it will always take back into the bosom of the Mystical Body; but his lie will never be taken into the treasury of His Wisdom. Real love involves real hatred: whoever has lost the power of moral indignation and the urge to drive the buyers and sellers from the temples has also lost a living, fervent love of Truth. Charity, then, is not a mild philosophy of “live and let live”; it is not a species of sloppy sentiment. Charity is the infusion of the Spirit of God, which makes us love the beautiful and hate the morally ugly.”
– Fulton Sheen
Thoughts on the ‘catholics’ that admit they enjoy porn and share porn gifs on their tumblrs?
They are living in mortal sin and need serious help, both practically to get over themselves and their addictions/habits, as well as spiritual help from their attachment to sin.
I was once told that God is “understanding” about porn use and boy that must be nice when you can just make up what God thinks about sin and believe that that’s the truth.